To be, or not to be

This comes from the world famous literary work of Shakespeare: Hamlet. But don’t be afraid, I am not going to take you through the rigours of making you read any of his abstruse poems. I just want to fetch your attention to the stress that most of us often encounter in our day to day life.
At times, the situation gets so perplexed that we don’t give it a fight and simply succumb to it. Or to put it another way, we take the not to be option. This happens because of our clumsiness, we seldom try to take the situation other way round. We feel contented to accept the simplest offered alternative i.e. not to be. We give up before it is actually over. Why fall prey to prefer unconditionally chosen termination? Is a small debacle or an imminent ignominy beastly enough to make us believe that it is the end of the things here? Certainly not.
Then how to get through the quandary of life? If we are ever to be conquerors, we shall have to fight with the sorority of enemies studded everywhere. To win the battle of balance of life is not an impossible art. Recall a situation when the mere remembrance of your dependents motivated you to rival the fiercest of the situations. Do not forget how difficult you found it to learn alphabets in kindergarten which later became tools for tweeting and orkutting, or say absolute fun. Difficulties make a man a man. We must learn that we are also a part of the cut throat competition where only the fittest survives. Hence, to stay active, alert, amiable, alacritous and yet sustainable, is imperative.
Remember, it is not all about the gold in the Olympics, but it is the participation that matters. To be is certainly divine and nonpareil beauty of the eternity of this universe. Always try to face the situation with the grit of a Lion and take the world in your stride even of it looks apparent that you will lose. It is easy to unconditionally accept the imminent failure without giving a fight, to become a part of oblivion, absolute annihilation. But those who choose always TO BE, write their own destiny.
To be or not to be? Is that still a quandary?????